Playing and relaxing for me are two different things.  When i play i don’t relax.  When i relax  it means i just do activities that will not tire me so much.  So i was upset one time when my first chinese boss told me I am lazy because i only want to play.  I was really mad but later i realized that maybe he can’t just find the right word to use.  Play for me is going out to play sports.  Relaxing for me means just staying at home and does relaxing stuff like reading, sleeping, listening to music, and maybe a quick trip to the store.  ok?  So that can comprise my relaxing day.

The kids nowadays have different view of what will relax them and what they would play.  One day Dimple asked me to consider buying her a PS3 and really i just dunno what to say. I remember i got a set of that in China but sold it to a student because i did not think my daughter would love to play it one day.  Oh well, one day…maybe one day. I will get t obuy you that.